tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558838082619140254.post5984812535203284740..comments2013-01-29T12:00:34.872-05:00Comments on In The Moment With Mel: Clarity, or Lack ThereofMelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02758590196919123137noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8558838082619140254.post-54819724122150383002011-08-31T21:24:10.599-04:002011-08-31T21:24:10.599-04:00You are certainly not the first or only one that h...You are certainly not the first or only one that has learned that the grass is not always greener... That being said I believe as human beings there is always going to be that feeling of maybe this would be better than the here and now. It's only natural. At least it is a lesson learned. It sounds like you lost someone very special to you. It happens to all of us at one point or another but still hurts none the less. I hope for you that you can fix your relationship with them. I have found that to be rather difficult myself. I was dating my best friend and it ended on a bad note leaving a lot of resentment and eventually we talked some and that lead to a longing to be with him... That was worse than the resentment. I knew that wasn't a possibility as he was now engaged and all googley eyed... So my advice having been there would be to tread lightly and only put out your hand if your willing and able to handle the hurt that could possibly accompany that. I know nothing of your situation there but I know mine and how it felt. It was one of the hardest things I have ever been through. It was worse than the initial breakup for me. I only hope this helps in some small way. ps love your blogs i think they are great you sounds very open and honest a hard thing to come by anymore! Great JobHollie B.noreply@blogger.com